Sunday, November 15, 2009








I returned from Colorado this week. Mike Steele, Ken Stade and I traveled over 1400 miles looking at ranch properties in four days. The Pictures are of the property that met the criteria that Laurie and our team had gathered over the years. I think the following journal entry captures a bit of the vision and dream that Laurie had for the Ranch. Thank you all for your faithful prayers. The more time that passes without her presence the harder it gets. Yet there is still hope because the same Father that held Laurie is holding me and the kids...

After touring the 291 acre ranch outside of Woodland Park Colorado, Mike Steele asked me, “How would Laurie have responded if she were here today visiting this spectacular property?” I said, “ It would take her three days to come down to earth because she would have seen the possibilities of changed lives; people rescued and brought to wholeness by the Holy Spirit.” She dreamt of families learning to share and communicate well in the context of discovery and adventure. She would see people of wealthy and poor backgrounds alike experience the joy of fishing, hunting, survival trips, cooking and exquisite lodging. The five-star guides and facilities would beckon them to return year after year. She envisioned the staff, especially those from challenged backgrounds, being mentored via interaction with the team. It was her desire that God would teach healthy ways to communicate and love through these relationships.

She would see equestrian lessons, both English and Western styles, enjoyed in the beauty of the 10 acre wood-fenced pasture and on the wild mountain trails. She would have led many of the 6:00 AM trail rides that culminated with a cowboy style breakfast over the open campfire consisting of eggs, bacon and pancakes.

In her mind, the two dojos could be perfectly utilized to express the various performing arts, such as dance, music, pottery, painting etc. - art in all its forms and mediums. It would be an ideal place to showcase any projects to staff and guests.

Personally, Laura would have spent a great deal of time in the “Writers Cabin,” perched on a high mountain precipice. Her hearts desire was to write about the love and reality of the Trinity – how the God of creation wants to moment by moment commune with and speak to us.

Winter sports on and off the property would have been her seasonal joy! She would have been a regular at cross country skiing, snow shoeing, and snowmobiling while on the ranch. She would travel with groups who wanted to ski or snowboard to nearby resorts, just 1.5 hours away are Breckenridge, Keystone, and A-Basin.

Laurie loved white water rafting. We first fell in love in Colorado 29 years ago while hiking and white water rafting. She was the first to push friends into the water while floating on a quiet part of the river. I loved her adventure and mischievous spirit. We experienced this same delight just two summers ago with our team/family of friends just 50 minutes from the ranch.

Hiking, camping, and climbing the 14K peaks just 50 minutes away in the Collegiate Mountain Range would have greatly captured her attention. She would take these adventure trips in small groups of 6-8 people. More importantly than the grandeur of the mountains, Laurie would have known her purpose was to get to know each person and love them deeply. In the process, God would give her discernment and knowledge of how He was speaking directly to their hearts.

This would have been her dream manifested. She would have been overflowing with excitement and nonstop creative ideas, of which we would have processed together. We would have joyfully communicated each phase of the journey, in turn providing us with the added benefit of hours of rich conversation. That’s why it would take at least three days for Laurie to return from this dream land of adventure and freedom for the people she so dearly loved.

Yes, Laurie was a true visionary not because of a massive ministry opportunity, but because she saw into the souls of people. She lived with the conviction that each person genuinely mattered. There were no rejects, no one without extreme value, and no one that was too messed up. They all were worthy of her time and love. Laurie knew how to love. She knew how to ask good questions. She knew how to listen to the Holy Spirit, specifically for the benefit of others. She knew how to give her life away – and she did. Laurie was compelled by compassion, because of the deep freeing love she had experienced from her Heavenly Father. Laurie manifested Jesus and people who encountered Laurie encountered Jesus. By God’s transformative power she lived out the reality of this verse –“Christ in you the Hope of Glory.”

Those who have learned from her life understand and have experienced and are experiencing similar growth and transformation will be the core of the facilitating team.

As you might imagine the rate to purchase such a place or for straight investing or invest for tax donations is significant. The ranch is going for 20% of what it cost to develop the facilities. If you know of any potential investors or have knowledge on investments please feel free to contact me. I only ask that you respond as the Lord might prompt you.

Monday, October 5, 2009

Update from Greg

We are all back home after a helpful trip to Colorado. We spent a lot of time processing and sharing our feelings and tears from the separation of Laurie, and her Home Coming with Jesus. We spent several nights in the high country and read her letters to the kids and J.D. and Natalie. Tears flowed as Jon read her love and insights for each one. It was good to be alone with just immediate family. I spent good deal of time journaling and listening to the Lord during my stay. Later I hope to share some of my thoughts from my journal.

I spent time with Mike and Chris Steele and Val and Ken Stade just hanging out as well as checking out some potential sites for the Ranch. Our only agenda was to listen and process what we were hearing. In our past lives we would have developed a neatly thought out plan and hope God would Bless those plans. Now we are committed to listen and discern the voice of the Spirit and then respond. One of the days we thought we might explore some potential sites but I needed to deal with the condition of my heart. Mike and Ken commented that they had been waiting for this moment and knew this was the major reason for their visit with me. We talked, processed and prayed for about three hours and ended with all three of us in deep tears of from the loss and trauma our family had experienced over the months since March. As Ken laid his hands on my cheeks and Mike my arm, it was as though Jesus was absorbing some of the trauma from the struggle of seeing Laurie’s health fail and the growing frailty of her body. We commented at the wonder of three men so profoundly impacted by her life and just as profoundly knit together at a heart and spirit level. Truly this has to be the cornerstone of the Ranch – hearts knit with Jesus and one another responding to His leading in the moments He provides.

Reentry here in Indy is hard. The memories are so good which makes the missing more difficult. Jon and Natalie, Liz and JD have been over quite a bit and I am on the phone with Heather. We all think the shock is just beginning to wear off and the slow seeping reality of Laurie not being here physically is starting to settle in. I cry a lot, but have decided to face the pain and trust Jesus to hold my heart. He does… I never knew the pain would be so incredibly great, probably because the love was so deep. This always turns me to thank our Father for the gift of love and life he gave to Laurie and me for so many years.

Finally for this entry I want to thank each one of you for the thoughtful cards and expression of love for me and the kids. Your prayers have had a huge impact on all of us. Thank you all for attending the viewing and the Celebration of Laurie’s Home Going. The Spirit of God was so very present and so was your love. We were all blown away by the support.

I am continuing to press into work with Apex Energy Solutions which has been a huge blessing and at the end of October will go out with the President of Apex – Michael Foit to help train our new Denver office. Following that training, I hope to take a few days to explore some more sites with Mike and Ken. Please continue to pray that we hear and respond to God’s leading.

Love to you all,

Greg

Monday, September 7, 2009

An Update on Laurie's Home Going Celebration

As Greg is spending time with his children over the next two weeks, Mike and Chris Steele are going to try and fill you in on the “goings on”.

Laurie would have been so blessed by the gathering of her family and friends to celebrate her home going. Friends shared their hearts and Laurie’s children sang and danced to honor Laurie and her Jesus.

Laurie’s dear friend Vivi sang “My Beloved,” which so perfectly expresses the Father’s heart for His bride. Laurie specifically asked Vivi to sing this particular song, as the lyrics, written from God’s perspective, communicate the love she experienced from her Father.

The story on how Laurie and Vivi met was special, yet somehow typical of Laurie. One day Laurie met a girl, Brianna, at Panera Bread for lunch, and Laurie spoke of God’s love for her. Unbeknownst to Laurie someone was overhearing the conversation. That person was Vivi. Vivi approached Laurie and expressed how encouraged she was by Laurie’s sharing her heart and that began an ever deepening friendship between Vivi and Laurie.

I, Mike, had the privilege of sharing about Laurie’s heart and life and the wonderful journey she has taken into the arms of Jesus. Here is a short excerpt.

This was a tribute to a life lived well! Her joy was to find LIFE. This is LIFE, that you know Him (Jesus) and the One who sent Him. He redefined her life. She was His child. He prolonged her life, adding over 6 and a half years to her journey, allowing her to explore “living loved” and imparting that love to others. Laurie simply slipped out of her body which was limiting her.

Laurie knew the verse well, that to be absent from the body is to be found in the Lord’s presence! You couldn’t hold her back from that moment. In November of last year, Jesus came to her and let her know that He could not be without her much longer, as captured in her blog post dated April 12, 2009. He would come for her soon but He wanted her to be able to share this love with her family before she left. Her season here was full and complete and her next season will be even more fulfilling.

Laurie’s son Jon prepared a video/slideshow to give us a glimpse into Laurie’s journey, a life lived well. We enjoyed this look into a Celebration of her LIFE in Christ.

Family friend Tracy Koch shared a beautiful song entitled “I Will Rise.”

The highlight of the celebration was watching Laurie’s beautiful kids sing and dance in expressing their unbridled love and affection for their mom. Heather sang with Natalie while JD accompanied them on the keyboard. Jon read the letter he wrote to Laurie before she went to be with Jesus. Natalie read Laurie’s response. Then Liz blessed us with a contemporary dance number to the song “Glory”.

Laurie’s love, Greg, shared about their life together and her vision for the ranch, a place of healing for hurting hearts. (More on the Ranch at the end of this post.)

Greg’s close friend Ken Stade from Canada shared some thoughts on the banquet meal Laurie was sharing with Jesus. Greg’s brother Randy sang “Hide Me in Your Holiness” during the covenant meal.
Laurie’s children completed the celebration with some very meaningful worship.

Many people have expressed their deep appreciation for the remarkable time shared. Greg and the family want to express their deep affection and thanks for the tremendous outpouring of love and affection they have continued to receive from everyone who knew Laurie. They are blessed by all the words expressed about Laurie’s touch on so many people.

Greg and the family will be resting and replenishing their hearts during the next week. They will begin to post on a regular basis by the end of the month.

The Vision of the Ranch

Greg Writes:

Laurie was a truth teller and a love giver. She was one of the most wise and sound- thinking women I have ever met. If she ever confronted your perspective, it came from a conviction and motive of love to ultimately see you free from torment and pain in your life.

Laurie understood and lived a life of transformation. She could speak profoundly into the life of a prostitute or a gang member, or the business people she met while working in sales. The change God brought about in her life was offered with great joy to everyone she met.

For Laurie, this came through a process of receiving truth, the healing of her soul. She was set free from her past, and fell into love with Jesus as they walked hand in hand. Jesus repaired and restored her heart and that restored trust and the capacity to love and hope.

Laurie and Greg have been walking with several couples for an extended period of time and God has continued to unite them and reveal a vision for a place of healing that mimics Laurie’s walk into Freedom and release.

Their concern came from the condition of so many broken families and such a damaged body of believers we call “the church”. So many of these people attend church week after week, still leaving burdened and unchanged. They are unable to move to the freedom and transformation marked by a life of delight in Jesus.

God never intended life to look like this. Jesus said that He came so that we might have life, and have it more abundantly.

His primary purpose was to reveal the dynamic of a son or daughter relationship with God as Father, where His gentle love would free our hearts and souls.

His desire is that we would experience an overflow of Life, and as a result impart that life to others.

Many are so conditioned to the abuse, trauma, pain, despair, deception and shame that they do not know how to leave those places. Our desire is that they receive wholeness, freedom and restoration; where through a process of exposure to Christ’s love, they would begin to operate out a heart of love.

This is the dream of the Ranch! Laurie’s idea of the Ranch includes a place of fun, adventure, reflection, singing, writing, and rediscovery of the arts. It’s a community where healing can come to the deep places of the soul.

This community will address healing in a holistic, relationally based way that will almost certainly require a place where people can enter into a relaxed, God filled, wonder permeated atmosphere of authenticity, freedom and love.

After Greg and the family rest and recuperate, Greg will be joining with his friends to listen to God and ask His direction for the unfolding of the Ranch. All those involved want to walk out this vision in God’s timing and direction. We would invite your prayers for understanding and clarity.

Finally, on a logistical level, we have been asked by numerous people about the best time to bring meals for Greg. Should you wish to bless Greg with meals, he will be back in motion on the 25th of September, and we know he will be very appreciative and hungry.

Blessings,

Mike and Chris Steele

Tuesday, September 1, 2009

Pictures

You may go to the following link to view family pictures taken by one of our dear friends back in March. You are also able to order pictures via this site.

Strand Family Pix

Monday, August 31, 2009

Celebration Service Info

Hello friends and family,

Today we are working out some of the details and arrangements for this coming weekend. Here are the times and locations for the viewing and celebration service.

Viewing:
Friday, September 4th at Leppert Mortuary, Nora Chapel from 4-8 p.m.
740 East 86th St. , Indianapolis, IN 46240

Laurie's Homegoing Celebration Service:
Saturday, September 5th at The Church at the Crossing at 10:30 a.m.
9111 Haverstick Rd., Indianapolis, IN 46240

Laurie Strand Memorial Fund:
In lieu of flowers, Laurie and family ask that donations be made to the Laurie Strand Memorial Fund at Forum Credit Union Bank.
6501 N. College Ave., Indianapolis, IN 46220

Greg will be posting more on the ranch in an upcoming blog.

Thank you again for your continued love poured out to all of us at this time.

Strand Family

Saturday, August 29, 2009

Laurie's memorial fund

Dear Friends,

Thank you for your continued love and support. We have received some beautiful flower arrangements and they very much help to brighten up the home.

We would like to ask however, that instead of sending more flowers, donations would be made to a memorial fund in honor of Laurie. These proceeds will go towards the development of the ranch that Greg and Laurie were in the early phases of planning with some friends. It had been on Laurie's heart for several years to have a ranch where anyone who was broken could come and find healing. Greg will be sharing more detailed information on the ranch. On Monday we will update as to the final details for the memorial fund as well funeral arrangements.

Love,

The Strand Family

Friday, August 28, 2009

The Most Beautiful Bride

Laurie has gone home to be with Jesus.

Last night our family spent a good portion of the evening singing praise and worship songs around her bed. Throughout the middle of the night she was having difficulty breathing, so we took shifts staying awake by her side. We read to her, sang to her, and shared precious memories of her impact on our lives.

This morning her breathing became more peaceful and relaxed. At about 10:30 Greg took her hand and spoke to these words to her, "Laurie remember the vision that you had. It's time for us to take the walk down the isle. You've been my bride, and now it is time for me to take you to your bridegroom. Jesus is waiting to hug you and kiss you, so I'm giving you over into his hands. I love you."

She had seen this moment and shared it with Greg a few weeks ago. She was dressed in a stunning bridal gown and Greg was gently walking her down the isle to where Jesus was waiting to take her into his arms. Greg's last act as her husband would be to give her away.

Shortly after Greg spoke those words to Laurie, she took her last few breathes on earth and took Jesus's hand in Heaven. Never has there been a more beautiful bride, so in love.

We wept deeply together for a while, and then we spent the next hour just singing worship songs around her. Laurie would have been very pleased to know that her homecoming resulted in such sweet worship.

We will be inviting all of you to join us in celebrating Laurie's life next weekend. Details will be posted shortly.

Thank you to all for your outpouring of support and love. When you have a paddle and there is no creek, the best thing to do is walk. We appreciate all of you walking down this road with us.

Love,

The Strands